A NOTE FROM MATTHEW:
I never dreamed Helen’s writings would inspire so many. I also never thought the popularity would last this long. We all assumed you would go away.
Now that I know you are going to stay, I want to make sure more people find out about Grandma Helen and her dear friend, Margaret.
Why Support MargaretandHelen.com?
First of all, you don’t have to. Margaret and Helen will always be free for everyone to enjoy.
Second, the money does not go to Margaret or Helen. It goes to me. I don’t want to mislead anyone. BUT here is what I will do with it::
1. We have secured www.margaretandhelen.com. Nothing has changed with how you get here (formerly MargaretandHelen.wordpress.com). However, during the last election someone took the Dot.Com name and used it to display political ads. Now you can come to Helen’s blog regardless of which address you type in.
2. I am working on expanding her site so that you can see more of her writing and learn more about her life. We have enjoyed being hosted by WordPress but the blog has now grown large enough that we need to move the site to be self-hosted. Nothing will change on your end.
3. I will spend more time working on how her posts are formatted so you will have access to links of the books she reads, the articles she reads… all the research she did before posting. Don’t worry, it will still be Helen writing to Margaret. Same humor. Same salty language. But now when you say, “How did she know that?” you can click on the link and see how she found out about it. Helen is fond of saying “Use your head for something other than a hat rack!” She also thinks people should read more.
4. We are working on the cookbook. It will be filled with some of her favorite posts, some of your favorite comments and – of course – her wonderful recipes passed down to her from her mother. Margaret has agreed to contribute as well. They are both going through recipes to decide which ones to use. I am going through all of her writings to see which ones can be “sprinkled” throughout the book. Much of the funds raised here will go to pay to have the book produced and printed.
6. I find that the more popular she gets, the more time I need to devote to “monitoring” the comments. You wouldn’t believe the lengths some people and groups go to take down this site and ruin the community conversation. I now consider myself a part-time employee for MargaretandHelen!

[...] SUPPORT M&H [...]
By: I morally object to being morally objectionable to Republicans. « Margaret and Helen on August 2, 2012
at 7:17 AM
You go girls! And I believe vaginas are a lot stronger than balls!
By: Dominique D on July 15, 2012
at 8:58 AM
Right on, girls!
By: Fellow Vaginian on July 14, 2012
at 3:07 PM
Incredible! You are the Betty Whites of blogging for the rights and dignity of women! Keep blogging–you’re reaching and encouraging us to give voice too in a nation that simultaneously oppresses women and hypocritically brags about equalities in liberty for all! Thank you!
By: Sonia Cowen on July 12, 2012
at 10:10 AM
I Love This. Will be sending it to all my Vagina Friends!
By: Anonymous on July 12, 2012
at 10:02 AM
Margaret and Helen rock!!!
By: Anonymous on July 5, 2012
at 12:49 PM
Go girls!
By: Jan on July 5, 2012
at 10:42 AM
Loved it…
By: Cher on July 4, 2012
at 8:48 AM
Margaret speaks truth to power in an inspiring way that is simply too funny —and too terribly true— to hide under a bush.
By: Anonymous on July 3, 2012
at 11:34 AM
Dear Margaret and Helen,
Your essay is funny, well-written and right on track! I do feel obligated to point out, however, that the correct term for your peeper —that is the visible female genitalia— is VULVA. Just saying…
By: Anonymous on July 2, 2012
at 12:27 PM
I am so tired of men voting on things that have to do with women.
That is so criminal . It is a big disfavor to women.
By: Shirley j on July 1, 2012
at 9:32 PM
Not since Molly Ivans passed have I read such fine writing from Texas. The Sharron’s and Christine’s and Michele’s of politics should put Helen on their reading list in order to know what a real, thoughtful woman thinks.
By: Anonymous on July 1, 2012
at 4:18 PM
You’all should watch the movie “Shirley Valentine”
By: Anonymous on June 29, 2012
at 10:12 PM
At 56 I still search for role models… from a cursory glance and solid read I’d say I’ve found two more. Thank you ladies for insight and humor!
By: Melody Lukaszewski on June 29, 2012
at 9:16 AM
[...] SUPPORT M&H [...]
By: You’re Damn Right Obama Cares. Why Doesn’t Romney? « Margaret and Helen on June 29, 2012
at 7:39 AM
I am 82 years old and can not believe how far stupid men want to go back to the bare foot and pregnant days. Where are their wives and mothers?
Aren’t we the majority ? Let’s Vote the A holes out!!!!!
By: Irene Cloninger on June 28, 2012
at 3:16 PM
Ladies, good for you we should start a movement. It is what it is!! Men should not be allowed to tell women what to do with their bodies!!!
By: Pam on June 28, 2012
at 2:11 PM
Wow you go girl.
By: Jane Powers on June 26, 2012
at 8:39 PM
I support you gal’s, stand your ground and keep believing in you and all the women in this country.
By: Anonymous on June 23, 2012
at 4:39 PM
My friend Anna has a new boyfriend. She calls him her bushwhacker.
By: Anonymous on June 22, 2012
at 7:07 PM
This is wonderful. Thank you both! and you certainly have my support!
By: lynn gergen on June 22, 2012
at 5:29 PM
As someone that moved my site from self hosted to WordPress.COM – WordPress.COM is much much easier to be an Admin on – nothing you note in your reasoning seems to me a reason to move – you can still add the extra links and back stories etc.
Their own cookbook should be able to be sold here
Their blog gets a lot of traffic and that means that you will probably have to get upgraded hosting – remember bandwidth is free at WordPress.COM it is not free on other hosts.
By: captnmike on June 22, 2012
at 2:03 PM
Ex- boxes!!??!! Hysterical!
By: marianne on June 22, 2012
at 12:13 PM
I LOVE you MargaretandHelen! I only wish my own mom had lived to read your blogs. She would have loved them, too!
By: Cathy on June 22, 2012
at 11:48 AM
You say vagina, I say vajayjay. It’s all the same, but there is no shame in calling it what it is. Who are these puritanical maniacs to make such a big deal out of a who-ha, couter, pouter–etc.? Not to mention the pornographic words that have been created to excite some pee pee; wee wee; johnson; tallywhacer; trouser snake, etc. Did they just step off the Mayflower or what? They need to get their heads out of their underwear (particularly MY underwear and yours). You go, go, go, Helen and Margaret. What a hoot. Nancy
By: Nancy V. on June 22, 2012
at 10:33 AM
Wonderful stuff. Adore it!
By: Amy Hamilton on June 22, 2012
at 8:36 AM
I’m in! you just brought back my grandmother! bad language and all!
By: Anonymous on June 21, 2012
at 10:37 PM
Margaret and Helen rock! Carry on!
By: Toni Watson on June 21, 2012
at 8:58 PM
I have a vagina and it votes.
By: Anonymous on June 21, 2012
at 6:28 PM
Will look forward to buying that cook book! I really get tired and sick to see so many ED commericals but let the word Vagina be used then it is wrong. Good grief, If people know what ed is, that includes children, then they know what vagina is, wake up people!
By: Dixie L Courtney on June 21, 2012
at 6:21 PM